A Winter Season's Passage

When was the last time you got a heartfelt letter? Have you ever gotten a heartfelt letter? If so, how did it make you feel? Did it not make you "feel good"? This emotion is triggered by encouraging one to feel loved, thankful, elated, joyful, happy, blessed, honored, or content. Gifts you can give! You show you care by taking your time to write a letter, sharing positive thoughts about that person, and focusing on their strengths, all laid by a foundation of faith.

The lost art of letter writing is real. Today, there are many fast and easy ways to communicate: emails, Internet relay chat, message boards, phone calling, instant and smartphone messaging, the World Wide Web, social networking, and video calls. There is a place for these. Yet, what better way is there than to take the time to compose a handwritten letter, setting aside time to communicate your true feelings, especially about someone you love or care for? The time slot to compose a letter can only be given once, enhancing the gift. History has produced a multitude of famous letters. Some are displayed in museums. Our future will provide less to display. There will be fewer and fewer new ones.

Not until recently did I really appreciate the fact that my parents were big letter writers. With 11 children, their undivided time was a sacrifice. Their letters, along with letters from some of my 10 siblings and 4 children, are priceless. Priceless as that little blue felt bag of baby teeth the "Tooth Fairy" gave me to save years ago.

I credit my wife, Clotilde, for her inspiration as we share our winter season. We were married in a Catholic church by Fr. John B. on 04-13-19, and we got to know him and formed a relationship. Impressed by the amazing job he did, I was moved to write him, starting 05-04-20, and continue to do so.

As I write to Father John, I try to offer encouragement in his new mission undertaking and share my personal thoughts, including letters written to family and others who have inspired me to reach out. The unveiling of one's heart frees the spirit to move unabated. It is a win-win for both composer and receiver. The best to you and yours always, and God bless!

-- Todd Gee Fox